Category: Life

  • Karn Sangwan 1996-2021

    Karn Sangwan 1996-2021

    This is going to be a blog post unlike my others. This isn’t about chronic illness or disability. This is about grief. In May of 2021, the world lost a very bright light. My friend Karn. I had just seen him in April. Due to COVID, we had only seen each other outside in the…

  • I’ve Been on 4 Podcasts!

    I’ve Been on 4 Podcasts!

    Hi everyone! Long time no talk, and I’m so sorry about that! It’s been a very hectic time since my last post. My health hasn’t been great and I’m in the process of switching from Humira to Cosentyx. Hopefully, I will see better results with it as I just went through my worst flare in…

  • I Have a Facebook Page!

    I Have a Facebook Page!

    Hi there everyone! I hope you’re all doing as well as you can be during COVID-19. It’s a scary time to live in. I hope you’re all staying at home as much as possible. I have just a bit of news to share with everyone! First being that I now have a Facebook Page for…

  • I Was In an Abusive Relationship

    I always make a joke to my friends: “If you screw me over, I’ll write about you!” but I never thought it would be so bad that I would actually write about it. Now here I am.  The anger When the relationship ended, we were on bad terms. As I’ve mentioned before, he had serious…

  • Writing a Letter to 10 Years Ago Steff

    Writing a Letter to 10 Years Ago Steff

    Hey Steff, by the way, we end up keeping the “ff”. It’s working for us. Good on you! Wow, you’re about to be 14. And I’m about to be 24. The next 10 years of your life are going to be… hard. They’re going to break you down and build you up over and over……

  • How I’m Sending off 2019

    As most of you know, 2019 was one of the worst years of my life. I’m not going to get into why anymore, because I’ve realized it’s important to move on and let go in order to allow new experiences, people, and memories into my life. I’m determined to make 2020 a great year. Or…

  • Why I Hate Ghosting as a Trend

    We all know what ghosting is. And we’ve more than likely all done it. For those of you who aren’t really sure what ghosting is, it’s essentially going radio silent on someone without warning. It’s cruel and hurtful, and I think it’s time to stop. In the culture of dating apps, ghosting is incredibly common.…

  • MY HU Connexion 2019 Experience

    MY HU Connexion 2019 Experience

    To be honest, I’m still processing all of what HU Connexion was for me. What it meant to me. And just how to put it into words. For those of you who don’t know, I also write for a company called Health Union (HU). Connexion is a conference they’ve held for 3 years in a…

  • Where Have I Been?

    Where Have I Been?

    Hi there, friends! I know it’s been a while since I last posted here. A lot has been happening the past few months, so expect some personal blog posts in the near future! That being said, I wanted to post a small update here for those of you that still visit. I’ve been dealing with…

  • Bubby

    Bubby

    I’ve both been trying to write this and avoiding writing this, for what feels like a while now. It’s been 11 days since it happened. Realistically, that’s not a long time at all. But it truly feels like months since I last saw him. Bubby had been sick for months. Since February I think. He…